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Thursday, January 04, 2007

I know why people like to keep their blogs and their identities separate. Sometimes, we tend to have things we want to complain about but then again we just don't want to ruin a friendship or end up putting people down. Bu tthen we still need the blog as an outlet for our views and as a mode to gather feedback; that's where the delimma comes in, so to blog about a certain matter or not to blog? Or just put some general viewpoints that will not offend anyone. In that case, then you are still keeping things to yourself. So what's my conclusion? Hiaz, I still have decided to keep things either in another blog where u can't find me Hahaa! Or I just write in my very own diary.
Only the 4th day to the New Year, how come I have so much to complain? You bet I have. And I have been keeping so much stuff that I think I am going to expode if I dun complain. Hahaz...But what if the person I am complaining about reads this blog and knows I am referring to him or her? What if another person reads the blog but thinks that I am referring to him or her when in fact I am actually referring to someone else? Then we would have made enemies out of just words. When the initial intention is not to annoy or make enemies out of anyone but just simply an outlet for me to vent my viewpoints.
Ok, you are going to say, Moonkate, aren't you being hypocritical if you don't tell a person upfront what you think a person should change? My answer to that would be, well, come on, you want to be an unintentional Bad Guy out of nothing? Everyone has his or her flaws and good points. But not everyone can take the truth with a pinch of salt. There are many types of people out there...
1) some who ignore you once you are not able to help them achieve their goals, or fall in line with their plans; in what kind of meaning, you go decipher...I already said I can't annoy anyone so I am not going to elaborate further...
2) some who pretend to be nice when they want something from you, then perform the disappearing act for months, until they want something from you again, then they'll contact you
3) some with really thin skin, who can't lose anything and everything must fall in line with their plans, and if it doesn't then, you're not even friends anymore
4) some who on the other hand, have super thick skin and can't get the hint no matter how many times you hint, or how many times your friends have hinted, or rather, even blatantly spell it out in front of their face but alas, this sad group of people still resume in their own ways...
I feel sorry for the world...
5) some who don't spell things out clearly but are so nice you wonder what's their motive and what will happen if one day you don't fall in line with their plans, a scary bunch of people indeed...
Am I being pessimistic here? Not really...I read that Optimists live longer so I am trying to be be a nice optimistic girl and forget about my irritation after publishing this blog. Wahaha...

One more thing to add, msn has different definitions for many different people. To some, "Busy" may be "Still can disturb", to others, "Busy" may be "Stop clicking on my profile you irritating
fella!" so how do we differentiate them? Some may argue, if you don't want pple to talk to you, why do you let people see that you are "Away" or "Busy"? Might as well put "Offline" or "Invisible"?

Hiaz..the world is full of great people. I shall let these great people argue amongst themselves. As for me, I have vented my thoughts. Now its time to rest my tired little brain. And yes, the "Some" people above may or may not be referring to whichever you who is reading this blog. It's so general, it could mean anything, couldn't it? And I haven't offended anyone, have I? I hope not. Hmm.....
Ok then, going to rest my tired little brain. Kudos. Ciao.

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Moonkate's fairytale world is where the men, the women and the entire animal kingdom all live in peace and harmony. They have unicorns for pets and with a snap of their fingers, the kitchen cleans itself. There is no housework to be done and no dishes to fight over. The pets clean themselves up after they dirty the place. You can eat anything you want without falling sick. Food is delievered just by wishing. Everbody has their own "Flylevator"--a cute forever-friend lookalike bear that has wings and carries a cabin on its back and can ferry you around. The cabin also has its own ipod nano and you can wish for whatever rock star to sit with you at different times of the day. Nobody falls sick, ever and all have eternal life... Ok lah, think I am crapping too far liaoz... Moonkate is basically made of of "Moon"and "Kate"...that is still, one single person... Both are neither alter egos nor good friends...they are just the same person... Moonkate likes to read, go gym, joing yoga classes, swim, drink red wine, and take on challenges. Her friends are just like her, crappy and serious...oooo, contradicting... Hahahaz...

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