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Friday, March 02, 2007

On life...
There are some times in life when you just want to take a step back and forget everything that has happened and just life a quiet simple life. That's the mood I am in these days. Why should we get ourselves so affected over issues and try to resolve and make everyone happy?Sometimes, its easier to be a simple little girl without a care or worry. Whatever comes, will come. Whatever leaves, just let it be. I am not going to be so upset and let these emotional turmoils torment my brain cells. After all, there is really nothing you can do.
On people...
We can never really fully understand what others may think. Make new friends, keep the old. One is silver, the other gold. Give and take and all will be fine. One thing I truly learn. Some people will never truly appreciate what you have done and there are also friends who treat you as a standby when they are lonely and will be MIA when they no longer need you. So if you already know what these people are like, why make your life so miserable by trying to please these people when they come looking for you? There is a limit to stupidity. And I don't want to be that stupid girl.
On work...
Work has its challenges, human-to-human relations. Even animal, or rather insects to insects relations. Like the cockroach that lives in the locker. No matter how many pandan leaves I put, MIA then a few weeks later come back. That's what I call cockroach to human relation. Hahaz. But anyway, don't let your personal life interfere with your work. Another thing I learnt. You cannot stop others' gossip but you can always turn a deaf ear to them. Life is short, don't let the little things affect you.
On myself...
Sometimes, we wonder why we behave a certain way and why we let some things affect us so much. Take life with a pinch of salt and be happy. That's my motto. Why compare? Everyone's different. People keep asking me why I am not attached and why I don't want to get attached. I mean, come on, isn't it asking the obvious? "Cos I haven't met the right person to get attached to. Maybe I have already met but I don't know that that is the right one? Heh? And there are some whom you love as a very good friend but never as a boyfriend. And there are also some whereby both parties or one party has already tried to make things work but it already doesn't and you are too tired to bother anymore. Being single is good. No obligations, no pressures. Let it stay that way until the right one comes along. Yes, I am single. Please stop asking me why I am single. I don't see anything wrong with it. I used to worry if once I hit 30 will I still be on the market and should I just accept whoever comes along and try to make it work. As we grow up, we think differently. I am just happy to focus on my goals in life right now and be good friends with everyone. I am not going to bother if one by one, all my cousins and friends get married one by one and I'm still not attached. I am happy for my friends and family that they have found the right one to marry but that is not going to push me into a hasty relationship.
On fun...
When its time to work, we work. When its time to have fun, we have fun. Life is short. Make the most of it. You never know when a person suddenly dies. With my grandma's anniversary round the corner, I am reminded of how short life is and how many things I could have done for her if only her time weren't so short.
On love...
I really hope to meet a person who will love me for who I am, what I am and not how I look or how fat or thin I am. At the end of the day, everyone ages. What will last is truly loving a person for who he or she really is and not the superficial qualities like wealth and looks. But at the end of the day, of course, you have to love the person for the same reasons as well for the relationship to work. I always think it takes time to really know a person so don't ever set a target like by when must chase after a girl. Love is not buying a present.
On blogging...
I have always been a diary sort of person. I love to write. At times I share my personal views in my blog. But sometimes I really don't want people to question me or ask me anything that I wrote in my blog. I know its online. I know its open to all. But don't bug me on my blog. Or ask irritating questions. I need a break. This is my outlet to unleash.
Ok then, till next time.

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Moonkate's fairytale world is where the men, the women and the entire animal kingdom all live in peace and harmony. They have unicorns for pets and with a snap of their fingers, the kitchen cleans itself. There is no housework to be done and no dishes to fight over. The pets clean themselves up after they dirty the place. You can eat anything you want without falling sick. Food is delievered just by wishing. Everbody has their own "Flylevator"--a cute forever-friend lookalike bear that has wings and carries a cabin on its back and can ferry you around. The cabin also has its own ipod nano and you can wish for whatever rock star to sit with you at different times of the day. Nobody falls sick, ever and all have eternal life... Ok lah, think I am crapping too far liaoz... Moonkate is basically made of of "Moon"and "Kate"...that is still, one single person... Both are neither alter egos nor good friends...they are just the same person... Moonkate likes to read, go gym, joing yoga classes, swim, drink red wine, and take on challenges. Her friends are just like her, crappy and serious...oooo, contradicting... Hahahaz...

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