Tres Chic

Tuesday, November 13, 2007

Going by the title, I bet you wouldn't even want to read this blog.
Somehow or rather, I just feel like lamenting about....affairs today. By "affairs", I don't mean those in terms of "romantic relationships". I am referring to "affairs" in general, like family affairs, friend affairs, educational affairs...etc...
Alright let's start with friends. Somehow, as we all start out working, we realise that friends slowly distant themselves from one another. And we always lament and blame it on work. But what I realised is that, it is just that sometimes, friendships are not based on how much time you spend with the person, but rather what it is based on. If a person understands you well enough, they will understand. But of course, we must always make sure that we never neglect these true friendships. Don't just throw it away just because a person has gotten attached or married. After all, as the saying goes, "Make new friends, keep the old. One is silver, the other gold." Friends who only look you up when they have broken up with their boyfriends and need someone to talk to. Although I am always there for them, sometimes we just can't help but wonder whether are we just a pillar of support in times of need? Are we being made use of only when the time comes?
Emotional affairs. Everyone has their own secrets. Or rather a store of secrets buried deep within. Whether it gets unlocked or not is up to them. Don't keep haunting them about it. If people want to talk, they will talk.
Nobody will truly understand another person. "Cos in the end, they are not that person himself. We can all try to understand but we will never be another person. "Cos our character is what makes us unique.
Ok lah, I shall stop my crap for the day.
Bye.

♥♥♥

profile

Moonkate's fairytale world is where the men, the women and the entire animal kingdom all live in peace and harmony. They have unicorns for pets and with a snap of their fingers, the kitchen cleans itself. There is no housework to be done and no dishes to fight over. The pets clean themselves up after they dirty the place. You can eat anything you want without falling sick. Food is delievered just by wishing. Everbody has their own "Flylevator"--a cute forever-friend lookalike bear that has wings and carries a cabin on its back and can ferry you around. The cabin also has its own ipod nano and you can wish for whatever rock star to sit with you at different times of the day. Nobody falls sick, ever and all have eternal life... Ok lah, think I am crapping too far liaoz... Moonkate is basically made of of "Moon"and "Kate"...that is still, one single person... Both are neither alter egos nor good friends...they are just the same person... Moonkate likes to read, go gym, joing yoga classes, swim, drink red wine, and take on challenges. Her friends are just like her, crappy and serious...oooo, contradicting... Hahahaz...

links

Mel
Sing
Angeline
Marie

tag

Maximum tagboard width: 227px